Did you manage to learn new things? Made new memories? Made through any day that felt like pure torture? Or had a day that Made you wish it could last forever?
Think back, and give the universe a thank you, for you Made through a bad day, for you got a beautiful day.
Now, we discussed about the gratitude journal, did you start it?
How do you feel after writting it? Are there things that you started noticing which you used to take for granted?
It should have been, or else you Aren't including the mundane things of your day.
Nevertheless, You did great. I am proud of you precious. I hope you appreciate your efforts too.
It's fine to make mistakes, but what matters is if you learn from them, if you try to do better, become better.
A quote I read in the book I am currently invested in; The Art of Work by Jeff Goins
"Part of people’s problem is they think of everything that could have been. Who cares what future might have been for me? It doesn't matter. It can't be. This is where we're at and This is where we're going."
Isn't it true?
The fact that we delve too much into what ifs of our past, of our actions, of our words, of our choices, of meetings, of rejected proposals or accepted ones.
Take a deep breath, sweetheart.
I know it strikes us that things could have been better. But, pause and ask yourself everytime these what ifs haunt you- "Is that what I needed?"
If you have truly analyzed the situation, you will realise that's what you needed. It was an experience you had to go through, reason- for you to know. It was a friendship you had to let go- reason for you to know.
We Lament on the loss of fleeting things because we fails to comphrehend the worst that might have been with their forever.
And the ultimate truth is, we are here. You where you currently at reading this, and me while writting this. This is where we are meant to be. And if there's a better place than this, than surely we don't need it.
Universe or if you believe in Lord, grants us what we need, what we deserve and what we believe in.
Now, think about everything, calmly, not as a first person, but as a third person and try to see that bad incident you think shouldn't have happened to you.
Just because it shouldn't, it doesn't means it wasn't needed.
We progress through pain.
If we are here in this world, pain is inevitable if we stays too much in done actions and said words.
Focus on today, you are a better person, have a better habit, a better relationship, most important is you have a better thing.
We are going to loose one thing or another as we move on, relying what we have is what we should focus on. It will make life more beautiful.
How about you ask, "What wouldn't have happened if I truly made that choice?"
Life is full of surprises, it won't unlock unless you realise it's true potential.
Because Universe never leaves a gaping hole, if it takes something, it has better things to give you. We just need to look closely to find them. Sometimes these things lies inside us.
So this weekend, spend some time with yourself.
There's always a scope for improvement.
We don't have to be best, but we can try to be better from today.
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